There's a quietly magical something about lighting a Diya. As soon as the flame catches, the entire mood shifts. The shadows grow soft, the air is quieter, and even your heart seems to quiet. It's not a ritual it's an experience. But have you ever stopped and thought: Why do some light a lamp with ghee and some with oil? Is there really any difference? The answer is yes and it's not just convenient, it's highly spiritual. Both bring their own tale, their own blessings.
Why We Light a Lamp
Consider how darkness reacts. It doesn't battle when light comes; it vanishes. That's what a diya shows us that hope and wisdom need not battle; they just glow. When we turn on a lamp at sunrise, it seems like we're requesting a good beginning. When we turn it off at sunset, it's as if we're returning the day to the world and requesting shelter during the night. And during celebrations like Diwali, hundreds of lamps combined make us recall one timeless fact: even the smallest light will dispel the darkest darkness.
The Meaning of Ghee and OilBoth oil and ghee are more than simply fuels. They reflect how we live and what we carry within.
Ghee: Clean, gentle, giving. Lighting a ghee lamp is akin to giving your unadulterated love, your filthiest free of intentions, your unconditioned devotion. It expresses: "Here's the best of me, may it find you."
Oil: Heavy, earthy, dense like the weight of everyday living. To light an oil lamp is to say: "Here are my cares, my ego, my strife. Burn them away. Lighten me."
Neither is superior to the other. They are just two sides of being human strife and purity.
What a Ghee Lamp Feels Like
If you light a ghee lamp, observe the light. It's smooth, golden, serene. You can almost sense it washing over you, soothing your mind. It's little wonder that families employ ghee diyas during meditation and other special pujas.
It also has this feeling of divinity since ghee, being derived from milk, is itself considered sacred. Presenting it as light is somehow returning something holy to the world. And if you just sit with it long enough, the warmth and scent of a ghee flame kind of feels like a gentle hug.
What an Oil Lamp Feels LikeAn oil lamp is not the same. Its flame can flicker more, yet it has power. It feels earthy, substantial like a constant reminder that even when things weigh heavy, the flame can still shoot upward. Oil lamps possess this shield-like protective energy too. Mustard or sesame oil diyas, lit and left burning in the night in most homes, ward off negativity. It's as if it's a shield, silently protecting your space. And since oil takes its time to burn, it reminds us that releasing stressing out, raging, or egoing occurs little by little, with patience.
A Little Touch of ScienceEven science knows in its quiet way what tradition has known all along. Ghee lamps are smokeless and steady, producing a peaceful atmosphere. Oil lamps produce some smoke, which in the past kept insects at bay and purified the air. So both served not just a spiritual function but a utilitarian function as well.
When to Light WhichTraditionally, families adopt a simple routine:
Morning: Light a ghee diya to usher in purity and blessings for the day.
Evening: Light an oil diya to ward off negativity and welcome protection in the night.
And some light both of them together. That way, purity and protection run side by side just like life itself, which is never single-handedly one thing.
What This Teaches Us
- If you pay close attention, lamps are actually little life lessons.
- Ghee lamps whisper: Stay soft, stay pure, stay devoted.
- Oil lamps remind us: Be strong, release your burdens, rise nevertheless.
- Together, they remind us: you are going to need love and courage, peace and strength.
A Moment of Reflection
The next time you sit to light a diya, do not make a habit out of it. Breathe. Observe how the flame dances and then settles. Ask yourself: What am I giving today ?Is it thanks? A plea for peace? A weight that you wish to shed? For in that instant, the lamp is not merely flame. It is your voice, your gift, your prayer.
The Final ThoughtWhether it’s ghee or oil, the flame will always rise. That’s the real secret it’s not about the fuel, it’s about the intention. The diya teaches us that no matter how heavy life feels, the soul has only one direction: upward, toward the light. So light your diya with love. Have it shine in your house. Have it shine in your heart. For in a world that is full of doubt, even one diya can tell us that light always manages to penetrate through.