Maturity is a state when children gradually move towards becoming an adult. It is not just a physical change, but also a time of mental and emotional development. In today's time, it is seen that children are getting matured earlier than before. There can be many reasons behind this, such as changes in food, lifestyle and impact of environment.
Maturity usually starts at the age of 8–13 in girls. During this time there are many changes in his body. The development of the breasts, changing the shape of the waist, and the onset of menstruation are its main signs. However, these changes in every girl can happen at different times. Some experts believe that nowadays girls start experiencing physical changes at the age of 8-9 years instead of 12-13.
Maturity in boys starts a little late than girls. Usually, physical changes begin to appear in boys at the age of 9–14 years. Heavy voice, beard-mustache, and hair coming on the body are its main symptoms. In boys, this process can last up to 14–17 years.
Along with physical changes, mental maturity is also very important. However, this process goes on long and every person has different speeds. Legally 18 years of age is considered to be the beginning of adulthood, but real mental maturity is even ahead of this.
In this critical time, the role of parents becomes very important. It is very important to explain these changes to children, resolve their doubts and give emotional support. Experts believe that from the age of 8-9, children should start telling about physical changes and sex education.
Maturity is also directly to marriage and career. The legal age of girls' marriage in India is 18 years, while it is 21 years for boys. However, many experts believe that this age should be 21 years for both. This will not only bring physical and mental maturity, but will also increase education and career opportunities.
There may also be some disadvantages of premature maturity. This can cause problems like stress, anxiety and depression in children. Also, if girls become a mother quickly, then the health of them and the child can also have a bad effect. Therefore, experts believe that at least 22-23 years of age is appropriate to become a mother.